I was bloghopping earlier and i come across a post that really brought me to tears.   I hope Lu that it is ok for me to link back to ur post.  I just need to let some things out of my system now, after reading your post of an ex.

The post is so full of emotions that i can truely relate.  I guess it is in each of us that no matter how or what a person does to hurt us and this person has been one time a part of our lives – we still think of them once or couple of times and sighing and hoping that they are alright.

For me personally, i wish all my exes well.  That’s not hypocrisy.  There are really days once or twice or several times a year that i think back of so and so and sighing that sana he is doing well with whoever he is with now. Even the person who truely breaks my heart into pieces that at one point i thought it will never be whole again – yet i still wish he is truely alright.  Although at times my pride is above my head thinking that am happy with the way i am now and i really don’t care what happens to them – but then, i realized that i should not think that way.  Because at some point of my life, they were part of me.  Though they are gone and are suppose to be forgotten, but the fondest memories of them will always have a spot in our hearts.

Ay tama na kay dagko na kaayo akong luha. huhuhuhu.

Tags: annulment, broken promises, broken relationship, emotion, life, Love, separation, wishing good for an ex

Tagged by Yen.

Saturday Social Question:

How do you keep the spark and excitement in your relationship/marriage?

My Answer:

I really dunno basing on the fact that my marriage failed.  But in my mind – if one remains or both remains to treat each other like bf/gf and as yen said even that “mistress” ways – am sure the spark and excitement will always be there.  communication lines should be open. don’t let little irks or disappointments pile up because if one will let it accumulate, it will burst one day and killing the fire of romance. Another thing is — don’t nag.

Saturday Social Rules:

• Post your answer to the Saturday Social question(s) in your blog. Be sure to put in a link to this entry and the blogger who tagged you too!
• Come back HERE, sign Mr. Linky and why not leave me a comment too
• Tag your friends… better yet, tag a stranger (what a great way to meet someone new!) You can tag 1 or 100, it is up to you. The more you tag, the more you will meet.
• Visit other Saturday Social participants by clicking their names in Mr. Linky!

Am passing this social tag to 4 happily married ladies and let’s hear what would be their advice:

Janice, Amel, Liz, and Hailey.

Happy Socializing!

Tags: friendship, social tag

Monday tag from Yen. am hours late but let me answer this on a Monday like yesterday. ok?

Who Played; Daily Stories | Me and Mine | Dancing in Midlife Tune |

1. complete this phrase: “if only i could..
:: talk to him right now.

2. did you get enough sleep last night?
:: Yeah. it was a good sleep. Dreamless one.

3. what were you doing before you slept last night?
:: Chatted with someone and then blog abit.

4. first thing you thought about this morning when you woke up?
:: Am going to transfer funds to xoom today.

5. do u ever wonder why the sky is blue?
:: yes.

6.Did you ever try to skip meals?
:: yeah many times – not to lose weight but at times no time to eat or no food to eat.

7. lights on or off?
:: am ok for both.

9. are you afraid of the dark?
:: No am not.

10. favorite hangout/s?
:: watching comedy and romantic movies.

11. people you can’t live without?
:: of course my daughter but there are times that situation calls when we have to live apart.

12. what are your plans for tonight?
:: watch a movie. again!

13. favorite song when you’re sleepy?
:: kenny rogers and kenny’s G’s music.

14. Do you love someone, right now?
:: Yeah. my family. someone unrelated? i thot so but now am wondering if i do love him or not. LOL!

15. are you a giver or a taker?
:: I’m always a giver! But it’s never bad to be a taker too. Life is too short not to be happy with small things.

16. if you could choose another name, what would it be?
:: Alexa/Alexandra or Stephanie

18. last text message from?
:: I think it was from my Aunt asking for something.

20. stuck on a desert island & could have only one KIND of food for the rest of your life, hat would it be?
:: Skyflakes. LOL!

21. favorite tv commercial/s?
:: Dancing and jolly sound – makulay ang buhay. the one with dancing kids.

22. if you were dead and your soul was given another chance, what would you do first?
:: Travel the WORLD. uban ta Yen! hahahaa

23. if you could choose your eye color,what color would you like to have?
:: I like my hazel brown.

24. what are the things you always bring?
:: inside my bag: comb, wallet, cp, hanky, ballpen, and now since i the time i have it – my dgcam.

Am passing this tag to:

Kerslyn, Carol, Cheryll, and Sheng.