This week’s theme for the Weekly Fest is “When You Were…”  It is a display of picture of you and your hubby before marriage.  I knew of the theme the other day and right away I thought i got nothing for an entry.  So instead of posting something with a picture, i’d rather post this with an explanation why on earth i don’t have a pre-marriage photo of me and my hubby (ex hubby na to uy).

Honestly, we had pics but I really dunno where they are now.  I remember long time ago, pre-wedding months, i got a photo of “US” in my wallet.  It was my kumare who took that shot and then developed it to twp pieces wallet size for me and him.  We used it during all the time since we received it from our kumare.  Many months later, when we already had a child, and the relationship seems not right (on my part), i discovered that “our” picture was not in his wallet anymore.  I didn’t asked him why he took it off, but i also did the same.  I took off “our” picture and changed it to a beautiful me (feeling single) mode.   The more i was emotionally drifting apart from him.  The act made me conclude that he is also thinking that our relationship is getting cold and am tired of trying to make it real warm.  Well, to make the long story short, I lost our pics.  Maybe i had it in file in my stuff left at his place or maybe i have really thrown it away.

Btw, just a little glimpse of our pre-marriage situation or maybe pre-living in together situation, we have gone out on several dates but seldom only the two of us together.  It’s often with my friends because he only comes to visit for couple of hours then off his way back to Pampanga.  So, if he goes, at least i have friends or girlfriend that will go back with me to my boarding house.  So we didnt have the typical sweety2 bf/gf relationship.

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