I love matchmaking.  It seems i can see that this girl is good for that guy and vice versa.  I only do it with my friends.  Although for some years now even my online friendships i also find myself matchmaking for that friend by supporting her or him whoever he/she likes.

This morning i happen to chat for a minute with a long time friend.  I cannot forget him because i matched him with one of my close friends from college.  I really thought they would make it out but was just surprise when later, my girlfriend told me that she is engaged to another guy.  But even then i still did not stop matching her with him.   She even candidly asked me if I am paid by the guy to matchmake them.  Of course i said no — i just like the both of them to be with each other forever.  Anyways, my girlfriend is now married but the guy is still happily single.

He came from a study in another city and i asked him why he did not show interest to on of his classmates in college who is still single now — he said that the girl did not give him any signs that “she can be courted.”    Ha? I laughed at the idea.  I told him how will you know if she is not interested when you don’t ask her?  Anyway, we ended up the chat with a laugh when i told him that if am still single then it will be me who will ask him to marry him. lol!  And he surely agreed! lol!

By the way, he graduated from a masteral course last March and he said that i owe him a gift.  I then thought of browsing audio racks because he might be interested to pick one to  improve the guy ambience of his bedroom.  I won’t pick it for him as a gift.  I just suggest he should enjoy the time in making his room nice just for him because when he picks a wife for sure the ambience will be changed into a “couples” ambience.  Yeah? Right!

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