# 21 – When was the last time that you spent Christmas with the whole family? It was last year. Since i arrived home in June 2005, every Christmas is spent at home with the family. But Dec 25, 2005, mom was not with us and after new year she had a heart attack, so after that each Chrsitmas and new year is spent at home…as i am also thinking it’s also a thanksgiving time for her for letting her live to another Christmas. 
Oppss am waiting for question # 22
NOVEMBER 7 -Do you celebrate anniversaries? How? In all my relationships (i think except the man i married) anniversaries are special dates. If time does can’t let us have a celebration, special greetings will do like anniv cards and maybe a candy or two will go along with it. In my current LO, for our first 2 years, i was still in China, the anniversary is being celebrated with cakes and wine and pasta. And i buy lots of flowers too and we celebrate it together – he inside the pc screen and me on the table, tasting the wine and eating some of the cakes. I eat half of the cake and put away in the ref half of it and freeze them til he makes it to China. Sadly he did not, so that frozen cake was thrown away from some months. lol! Now that am back in my homeland and he is still out there, we just greet each other and when we have the chance to meet in real – we celebrate all the special dates in our relationship (pakyawan).
OCTOBER 31
If there’s one greatest gift that you ever received in your life, what is that? My mom. The mom i have. She may not be perfect, but i am so proud and thankful that she is my mom or else i won’t be here blogging and answering this meme question and having children that calls me mommy because am “really” their mom.
OCTOBER 24
Were you taught and trained to do the household chores at a very young age? If yes, would you implement the same to your children? Yes, we were or I am. Am the eldest i have to learn earlier that in my elementary years, i can be a doting mom to my siblings because my mom is a working mom. hehehe. I can remember we have house-hold assignment list pasted in one of the corners of the kitchen that we have to do it before going to school in the morning and beofre eating dinner in the evening. I thought that time i got a devil mom because she let us work hard while other kids in the neighborhood play and play. But later at 14 when me and my sister were off to a boarding school and we have to cook our food, i did well. I have to fed my sister for 4 years in boarding school and my bro for 2 years. Would i implement to my children? I do want to but my kid is now at a situation where almost everyone will do things for her, especially the grandma. I even mused to myself how come my mom was not able to train my child well when it comes to household chores, when she had done her best when me myself and my siblings were still young. oh well, i’d like to blame it on grandmahood. hehehe. Dimple is still not good in washing clothes even her undies and socks. She can’t arranged her clothes well nor fold them very well like i want to. But for cooking rice, as long as she measures water and rice well, she goes along fine. She can sweep the floor too.
Who are the women you admire most and why?
My maternal grandmother - She raised a total of 12 children most for her life is a single parent. I can imagine how much pain she felt when she decided to give away her husband to her younger sister. She advised my grandpa na panagutan nya ang ginawa nya sa kapatid, thus my grandma and grandma’s sister married and bore 6 children. A year after the 6th child, the sister died, leaving all the kids to my grandma. So she got 12. They never stayed together again because it was a no no to her principles, but i know my grandma was showered with her children’s love and blessings throughout the years unitl she died at 86. I admire her strong strength. She’s a strong woman. She not only made strong bones of my uncles and aunties, but she also build houses, build little dams and maintain her farm and gardening up in the mountains. One thing i can’t forget is that — am her favorite apo. She died at our house.
My mother - She’s tough and one strong woman too but even then i know that deep in her heart she has that soft spot. My mom is the youngest of my grandma so she’s the last one to leave her care and yet my mom goes back to check on her at least once a month when she started to live in the city. She took care of my grandma til she died. She took care of us 3 children (financially and morally) while struggling a balance btween work and taking care of kids. It was at tough job for her because of a very irresponsible and uncooperative husband. My mom though hard up, she does not fail to share. She has the attitude of even she can’t eat because she sees her neighbors or people around her needs it more.
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